False Identity

2:45 False Identity- what are we leaving behind Kimiya

• Growing in confidence rooted in the identity God has given us. We are expectant for freedom, clarity for the year ahead, and confidence to rise.

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These are speaking notes for a retreat that are a part of a chapter in book that is on it's way and  currently in the LDR. These bullet points are a part of a bigger conversation regarding idnetity. I invite you to join, ask curious questions, comment and contribute to the collective ongoing discussion with your wisdom.

"You are not Responsible

for what God has not said

you are Responsible for."

Now I could apologize for the language, but let me ask you this, “How brutal is the banter dialogue inside your head?

How much and how often do you beat yourself up with negative disparaging  self talk  that doesn’t align with Who Daddy says you are to Him?

How much ping ponging, vacillating and wiggling do you do between pride and insecurity?

Scot McCloud in Snakes The Lobby: Two snakes in the lobby writhing and all coiled up fighting, biting dancing and swirling in a spiral together…Pride and Insecurity.

GRACE:

James Ryle,

"God's Empowering PRESENCE

to DO and Be

What God has called you to

Do and Be"

Humility may leave us vulnerable to humiliation, but if  being humble is agreeing with God and God gives grace to the humble but resists the proud,…

And if God’s GRACE is HIs empowering presence to Do and Be ALL that He CREATED us to do and be,

Even if were not to let our left hand see what our right hand is doing.

If we choose to walk in Righteous Shalom and Joy in the Holy Spirit,

We can humbly and CONFIDENTLY Do and Be anything God says.

Daddy Said So!

If He says, “You are the scum of the earth.

Then you can humbly and confidently say, ‘I am the scum of the earth.”

This takes you out of the chaotic loop of Pride and Insecurity.

Installing Healthy Boundaries in Healthy ways.

Unlike how this generation is caught up in it's hypersensitive, easily offended, thin skinned

CANCEL CULTURE, Healthy Boundaries appropriated and instituted in healthy ways, honor

PRoChoice FREEWILL.

You can have your cake and eat it too, but you cannot have FREEDOM without honoring and respecting other peoples' capacity for things. The same is true for showing up for yourself the way you show up for the rest of the world... and for how you don't. Sometimes you actually have to REFUSE to do stuff that ain't your's to do. This liberates your time, your energy and your relationships.

We OVERCOME by What?

1. The blood of the Lamb

2. The word of our testimony

3. Not loving our lives even unto death, or I like to say,”Living our lives as if willing to die for Jesus.”

   
   

 Rev. 12:11

So I am going to

1. share some of my testimonies of putting up with the entanglements of False Identities and

2.  the antidote of revelation that Holy Spirit is helping me walk out and live out running my race in my true authenticity…

3. Then we’re gonna minister some Freedom and Healing so that we can all access the same and

Rise Up into doing those Ephesians 2:10 works that He has planned for us.

Where my true identity has been mistaken and misunderstood:

False ID

Who do others say you are?

What functions and identity others try to put on you?

vs

Who you really are and Who God says you are.

Body:

1.Steve Miller “I didn’t know your sister ever did anything with herself.”

5.TopSheet my 50% community property ownership of .0791% vested interests minority share holder rights and responsibilities.

2.Jack the jewish attorney and self trained chef and a conversation on GRACE.

3.Jarin our new CPA…Businsess Acumen

4.Pissing off My Father in-law’s attorney who screwed up the reconvene of our insured title Deed Estate Planning “Hand write it in to your Schedule A”

5.TopSheet my 50% community property ownership of .0791% vested interests minority share holder rights and responsibilities.

6. Banker “A lean is only a state of mind, no one is really going to come and take your home.”

Soul:

False Beleif that was a part of my identity was that if I just explained myself; if we just talked through it, you'd understand me and we'd be ok.

After a reaming from sister in-law...another legal situation where our commercial real estate attorney said the same exact thing that I had said 3 days prior to which I got a lashing from my sister in-law.

"Crying I flopped on the couch and saw the Lord with arms opened for me to run into and heard Him say to me," Welcome to the Regiment of the Greatly Misunderstood."

Out of the heart the mouth speaks

The power of life and death are in the tongue.

My Dad..wrote me a letter. It is written..Spoke over me several things that I mulled over to check myself. To humbly receive his feedback..counter his points and basically ended up landing on that's not who I am. you don't know me well enough to accuse me of being those things. He gave me his bronze star. He explained the action in war that awarded him the bronze star...his unit was retreating and he went back in enemy controled territory to reteive his friend, who ended up dying in his arms while being under friendly fire. My dad told me it wasn't safe for me to relationally address the things I countered in our letters back and forth to each other. I was brave to undergo freindly fire from him that wasn't so friendly. The thing about his bronze star is that it should have been a silver star, but because a superior officer didn't witness the the action live, it could only be bronze and not a silver star.

I say to you, there are false accusations that come from friendlies that are not so friendly, that hurt and cause real pain and trauma. Our courage under such fire, to RISE above false things about ourselves... is seen by our Superior Officer. And He is the Rewarder of our faith.

Spirit:

Prayer for last minute MC’ing Graduation ~Nathan Johnson “You’ll do fine Mrs.D. Just be yourself.”

Antidote for insecurity and false identity:

My relationship with the Lord is More Like that of a GRAND-DAUGHTER & a GRANDFATHER

than that of a father and child.

Matt. 18 Unless…you will never…inherit the Kingdom

Rightness Shalom Joy in the Holy Spirit

Matt. 18:  3 and said, “I assure you and most solemnly say to you, unless you repent [that is, change your inner self—your old way of thinking, live changed lives] and become like children [trusting, humble, and forgiving], you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.

Matt: 14:

17 for the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking [what one likes], but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.

1. Who you are is the part of you that is your spirit…communing with HS all 7 of God’s Spirits IS 11

2. You’ve already been a child, so you’’re an expert at navigating child like faith. The difference is now you have your adult self to support your inner child and give your inner child aka your spirit freedom safety and permission.

3. Who does JOY better Children or Adults?

Closing Case:

1.Gal. Christ in Us the hope of Glory

2.Image of God

3.DeSire

4.Omnipresent Omniscient and Omnipotent

5. PRESENCE PROXIMITY 1.Mose 2.Ministry for 3 years then “who do you say I am?”

Isaiah 11 Communion with all 7 of God's Spirit:

6.House of David “Show me who I am.” POEC

Sh ow me who I am.

Jesus spent 3 years saying who he was.

It pissed people off so bad they wanted to kill him and did.

Out of the heart the mouth speaks

The power of life and death are in the tongue.

Is. 55:11

So will My word be which goes out of My mouth;

It will not return to Me void (useless, without result),

Without accomplishing what I desire,

And without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it.

My Sheep know my voice.

What was your favorite thing to play as a child?

What is fun for you?

What is no fun for you?

What breathes life into you?

What area do you want to gain more freedom in?

Deep Breath.

If the truth you know sets you free, what area of your inner thought life do you want to grow in a greater revelation of truth in?

When was the most recent time you delighted in something?

What does Joy feel like to you. What types of things fill you with joy.

If God’s word says He created you in HIs image

If His word says that if you Delight yourself in the Lord he’ll grant you the desires of your heart

If DeSire means “of the Sire”

Can that reasonably be rationalized as to mean that when we delight ourselves in the Lord, our desires align with His desires and this unity empowers us with the power of agreement and activates the granting part of God’s granting grace?

What does Delight look like?

What does Joy look like?

Who does delight and Joy better Children or adults?

If the gifts of the Lord are irrevocable

If God’s burden is light and His Yolk is easy

If the Joy of the Lord is your strength

Some Scriptures for Diving Deeper:

John 6:63

63 It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh conveys no benefit [it is of no account]. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and life [providing eternal life].

1 Corinthians 2:14 But the natural [unbelieving] man does not accept the things [the teachings and revelations] of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness [absurd and illogical] to him; and he is incapable of understanding them, because they are spiritually discerned and appreciated, [and he is unqualified to judge spiritual matters]. 15 But the spiritual man [the spiritually mature Christian] judges all things [questions, examines and applies what the Holy Spirit reveals], yet is himself judged by no one [the unbeliever cannot judge and understand the believer’s spiritual nature]. 16 For who has known the mind and purposes of the Lord, so as to instruct Him? But we have the mind of Christ [to be guided by His thoughts and purposes].

Matt. 18:  3 and said, “I assure you and most solemnly say to you, unless you repent [that is, change your inner self—your old way of thinking, live changed lives] and become like children [trusting, humble, and forgiving], you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.

Matt: 14:

17 for the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking [what one likes], but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.

Galatians 5

18 But if you are guided and led by the Spirit, you are not subject to the Law. 

(Walk according to the flesh) those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. 22 But the fruit of the Spirit [the result of His presence within us] is love [unselfish concern for others], joy, [inner] peace, patience [not the ability to wait, but how we act while waiting], kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such things there is no law. 

2 Corinthians 3:16-18

16 but whenever a person turns [in repentance and faith] to the Lord, the veil is taken away. 17 Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty [emancipation from bondage, true freedom]. 18 And we all, with unveiled face, continually seeing as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are progressively being transformed into His image from [one degree of] glory to [even more] glory, which comes from the Lord, [who is] the Spirit.

Psalm 8:6 ESV / 7 helpful votes 

You have given him dominion over the works of your hands; you have put all things under his feet,

2 Corinthians 3

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Ministers of a New Covenant

3 Are we starting to commend ourselves again? Or do we need, like some [false teachers], letters of recommendation to you or from you? [No!] 2 You are our letter [of recommendation], written in our hearts, recognized and read by everyone. 3 You show that you are a letter from Christ, delivered by us, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts.

4 Such is the confidence and steadfast reliance and absolute trust that we have through Christ toward God. 5 Not that we are sufficiently qualified in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us, but our sufficiency and qualifications come from God. 6 He has qualified us [making us sufficient] as ministers of a new covenant [of salvation through Christ], not of the letter [of a written code] but of the Spirit; for the letter [of the Law] kills [by revealing sin and demanding obedience], but the Spirit gives life.

7 Now if the ministry of death, engraved in letters on stones [the covenant of the Law which led to death because of sin], came with such glory and splendor that the Israelites were not able to look steadily at the face of Moses because of its glory, [a brilliance] that was fading, 8 how will the ministry of the Spirit [the new covenant which allows us to be Spirit-filled] fail to be even more glorious and splendid? 9 For if the ministry that brings condemnation [the old covenant, the Law] has glory, how much more does glory overflow in the ministry that brings righteousness [the new covenant which declares believers free of guilt and sets them apart for God’s special purpose]! 10 Indeed, what had glory [the Law], in this case no longer has glory because of the glory that surpasses it [the gospel]. 11 For if that [Law] which fades away came with glory, how much more must that [gospel] which remains and is permanent abide in glory and splendor!

12 Since we have such a [glorious] hope and confident expectation, we speak with great courage, 13 and we are not like Moses, who used to put a veil over his face so that the Israelites would not gaze at the end of the glory which was fading away. 14 But [in fact] their minds were hardened [for they had lost the ability to understand]; for until this very day at the reading of the old covenant the same veil remains unlifted, because it is removed [only] in Christ. 15 But to this day whenever Moses is read, a veil [of blindness] lies over their heart; 16 but whenever a person turns [in repentance and faith] to the Lord, the veil is taken away. 17 Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty [emancipation from bondage, true freedom]. 18 And we all, with unveiled face, continually seeing as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are progressively being transformed into His image from [one degree of] glory to [even more] glory, which comes from the Lord, [who is] the Spirit.

Colossians 1:27 is a powerful verse: “God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.”

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But the Helper (Comforter, Advocate, Intercessor—Counselor, Strengthener, Standby), the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name [in My place, to represent Me and act on My behalf], He will teach you all things. And He will help you remember everything that I have told you.